He Wants to Know If I'm A Virgin
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He Wants to Know If I'm A Virgin
A reader asked what to do about a guy who wanted to know whether or not she was a virgin. I responded with: I would definitely not tell him whether you are or you are not a virgin, but rather, come up with a spicy response that leaves him wondering... something like, "Wouldn't you like to know?" or "Hmmm, that's something I only share with one other person." or "I'm not clear what that question has to do with our relationship." The important thing is not to give a direct response because, A) It really is none of his business, B) If you are interested in this guy and he wants an easy pickup or truly wants a virgin, you will have turned him off. By the way, there is no shame in being a virgin. Do not feel pressured to have sex just because everyone else is doing it and you don't want to be different. Believe it or not, guys may ask for sex (beg, plead, demand), but they really respect the girls who do not give in (trust me on this one!).
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