Not Ready For Sex
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Not Ready For Sex
A reader recently wrote: My boy friend asked me to have sex and I do not feel ready. What do I tell him? First, some cold, hard facts! Guys have very different sexual needs than women's. I once read that guys actually think about sex at least once every 5 minutes. I asked a couple of male friends and they both told me that was not true. They think about sex more often than that!
Men's hormones are different than women's are, therefore, even nice guys may tend to pressure for sex when the girl is not ready. A woman should never be pressured into sex and a guy who really cares will take a "no" for an answer and still like you.
So, what do you tell him? You tell him "I AM NOT READY FOR SEX YET!" and leave it at that. If he says "Everyone else is doing it". You say, "Is it not nice that I am unique and not like everyone else!" And mean it! Be tough on this. If he likes you, he will hang around and wait. If not, you are better off that he left.
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