Reflection
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Reflection
One of the most common mistakes we make when trying to correct problem behavior, is not talking directly about the problem. This can be done privately with the child, or annonymously in a group. This gives the child a chance to reflect on the issue, problem solve, and develop new behaviors during a calm time instead of when the pressure during the heat of reprimend when the child's defense mechanisms and emotions are high.
To do this, simply bring up a "What If..." situation during a relaxed time. Talk about the reasons behind the misbehavior and alternative solutions the child might use to replace the misbehavior. Then, remind the child often before a problem arises about how they will respond in that given situation.
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| Byron White |
