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How can I get my "other" to pick up after him/herself?

Be Positive

Nagging will only worsen your special other's behavior and most likely worsen your relationship. Stay positive, and if you can have a little patience, your efforts will pay off.

If you does not take out the trash as he promised or she does not pick up her clothes like she said she would, rather than nag, wait for a time when you see the correct behavior and reward him/her with a hug and a kiss. Remark about how much you appreciate what s/he has done. A little positive reinforcement goes a lot further than negative reinforcement. Believe me, I have been a behavioral health specialist for nearly 25 years!

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