January 24, 2003, Newsletter Issue #60: He Thinks/She Talks

Tip of the Week

When men problem solve, they tend to `think` the problem through, rather than `talk` the problem through. The woman, however, typically does not understand this since she likes to talk the problem through. The man`s silence, then, is viewed as `not sharing` or `not trying to resolve the issue` or `ignoring the woman.` And since this then becomes a problem for the woman, what does she do? Talk more, of course! Which, of course, then makes the problem worse for the man who is already being distracted and/or accused.

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