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Getting His Attention
It is my experience that men like to pursue their women and not to be pursued. If the woman is too needy, clingy, or falling all over them, they tend to pull away.
My tip to be yourself. Guys like women who are confident, active, happy, in love with life. Even a "not so good looking girl" becomes attractive if she has a spark of life. Then, I would give him very subtle clues -- a shy smile, a certain look, being near him but not obviously so. It is a mixture of letting him know you are there and available, but not after him.
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Emotional Blackmail: Definition
Emotional blackmail is when someone manipulates you, whether openly or indirectly, through threat. In other words, if you do not do what the person wants, they will make you suffer. Emotional blackmailers may make you feel like you owe them, or that if you do not do what they want you to do, they will take away their love or approval.
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Sacrifices
Women often make great sacrifices for men they love. Unfortunately, women then expect men to repay their efforts. Men then often feel pressured to do something they do not want to do and women feel slighted and resentful because the men did not return the sacrifice.
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Cold Shoulder
Guys often complain that girls are "frigid". First, remember that most guys have a lot stronger sexual drive than women. and the "cold shoulder" is probably the most common tool a woman uses to keep the relationship at a safe level. What to do? You may want to get used to girls being "frigid" :-), or, take the relationship slower, being supportive but not too pushy.
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How Do I Tell Her?
How do you let someone know that you are interested in him or her? First, try not to be too obvious. If that person is not interested in you, you could end up making a fool of yourself. Instead, show the person you are interested by giving special looks, being near, or commenting on statements they make. Then, try to read the meaning in his or her responses.
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Women Are Talkers
Women tend to talk more than men. There is a biological reason for this. Women tend to have stronger language centers in the brain then men do. Therefore, women will talk about things that are bothering them, things they hope do not happen, things they worry about, things in the past and future... well they talk about lots of things! Because they talk so much they expect men to do the same and often women become hurt or bothered when the man does not share everything.
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I Love You
Try not to get into the habit of saying ´I Love You´ on a routine basis, when the words have no meaning. Say them when you mean them, and make sure the meaning of those words is reflected in the tone of your voice and in your eyes to really have an effect. For a great site to order roses (and more!) for your special someone, click on the roses below:
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I´m Late!
If you are going to be late more than 15 minutes, call and let the other one know.
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The Birthday
Order Flowers!
Instead of giving just one birthday present on his/her birthday, give a small present each day of that month until the day of the his/her birthday. Gifts do not have to be elaborate or expensive. You can give a poem, a letter, a card, a promise, a lost sock, a matching button for the one he lost on his favorite coat, a picture of you...
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Star Gazing
Spontaneously ask him or her to go star gazing with you. Pack a blanket and find a place where your view will be less obstructed by city lights. A field in the country, or hill top on the edge of town is perfect.
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Emotional Death
One of the deadliest mistakes couples make is to let negative feelings about the other person build up. Just like a festering wound, those negative feelings will have to come ou sooner or later. Usually, when too many negative feelings have been kept inside, they come gushing forth like a volcano. And unfortunately, when there are too many negative feelings inside, there is little room of the positive ones to survive.
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Letting Down Gently
How do you tell a guy whom you have known since kindergarten who has asked you out that you are not interested? There really is no easy way to do this, so it is best to just be up front and honest and tell him that since you have been together since kindergarten, you think of him as a friend and a relationship could never go any further than friendship.
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Six Deadly Symptoms
According to Dr. Susan Forward, there are six deadly symptoms of emotional blackmail: A demand. Resistance. Pressure. Threats. Compliance. Repetition.
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The Abused
Have you often wondered why someone would allow themselves to be abused or emotionally battered? Are you wondering why you allow yourself to be abused or emotionally battered? There is no reason to feel bad. Emotional abuse, as well as many other kinds of abuse, occurs slowly over time. You may not even realize it is happening until it is too late. Abuse and battering cross over all economic and cultural lines, meaning, it can happen to anyone.
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Sexual Difficulties
For information about sexual difficulties and dysfunctions, please look under the Emotional Guru´s section on Mental Health Disorders. Everything from pain at intercourse to lack of desire and impotence are discussed.
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Ups & Downs of Marriage
Ever heard of the seven year itch? Well, there is some truth to the rumor. Love doesn´t always wax and wane on a seven year rotation, but it does have its ups and downs. If you are considering divorce because you are in a "down" period, you might want to wait a few months to see if the magic does not reappear.
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Brush Her Hair
Men, brush her hair for her unexpectedly. Take your time. Better yet, offer to shampoo and dry her hair.
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Romance, What is It?
Romance is not love. That is a common mistake often made. Romance is actually the expression of love and it is something that can be learned (or taught!). Some people are naturally romantic, they can express their love in hundreds of different ways. Others say, or do, almost nothing at all, but their feelings might be the same. How do you know if s/he loves you or not? You may want to check out this book: Consider Love, Its Many Moods and Ways.
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Romantic Picnic
Take your lover on a picnic to a grassy field (wild life areas, unused parks, abandoned beaches, and grassy knolls are wonderful). Pack a blanket, some sandwiches, and a bottle of wine or sparkling water. Take his/her shoes off and rub feet. Fall asleep in the afternoon sun. Go for a romantic walk holding hands, taking your time to enjoy nature.
Try not to get into the habit of saying ´I Love You´ on a routine basis, when the words have no meaning. Say them when you mean them, and make sure the meaning of those words is reflected in the tone of your voice and in your eyes to really have an effect. For a great site to order roses (and more!) for your special someone, click on the roses below:
